What Then Is Generosity, Or, Saturday Morning at 10:49am

What Then Is Generosity, Or, Saturday Morning at 10:49am

White Hybrid Tea Rose in August

We had a heat pump installed this week. Yesterday, the temperatures having reached 101F in my town, our patio hot enough to blister the soles of our feet, I felt the house starting to cool. Having lived my whole life where I got as hot as my world, this feels quite odd.

Good, in that I no longer have to run through the house opening and closing doors and windows to capture as much cool air as possible, and I no longer worry that I have to shelter in our local library if the heat wave extends even one more day. But odd, not to feel in my being what the Earth is doing right now. Let me temper this. Of course I’ve had heat all these years. But heat has been possible since we first domesticated fire. Cooling feels quite advanced.

I will say, it makes it much easier for me to feel grateful. This morning, I’m grateful for my white hybrid tea rose, Honor, it’s called, in its second or third bloom of the summer often calls pink from its roots.

Which reminds me of something someone said to me in the group of other peer grief counselors I meet with regularly–when you suffer an irreplaceable loss, although it never goes away you can look for other paths of purpose and comfort. Gratitude, for one. I think we know this, and even if I don’t know it I wrote this post anyway.

But it’s a lot easier to feel gratitude when you’re not-metaphorically or literally-overheating.

The other thing this wise woman reminded me of is the role of generosity. Not from others to us, although that’s needed, but from us to others.

In my newly cool house, I’m wondering, what then is generosity? Simply the act of giving? I don’t think so. If someone a) has more resources than they know what to do with, and b) makes themself feel big by giving things away, is that generous? Doesn’t feel like it.

Let’s deconstruct that sentence. We’re talking about a) whether someone’s gifts are easy to part with and b) whether they’re giving for their own reasons or altruistically. Now I have to let those parameters rattle around like marbles in a maze for a minute. Hold on. I’ll go deadhead the roses.

OK. Marbles are falling out. Let’s start with b). I think people can be generous without being selfless. Sainthood is too high of a benchmark. All us imperfect beings can be generous. It’s a) that’s the crux. Real generosity means the giving has to require an effort, maybe even hardship. To be generous, some part of you has to groan a little bit inside: I don’t want to spend the day with this person who needs me; I don’t want to donate that $75 because I want to buy a new shirt; I don’t want to forgive her, I want to let the fury I’m holding onto singe the room we stand in.

One last question. Does the definition of generosity require the person we are giving to like what we give them? Nah. I don’t think so. Gotta leave room for mistakes. You just have to give some of your capacity for work–intellectual, emotional or physical labor. A very Sturdy Gal concept, for those of you who’ve been here since early on.

Maybe in the end generosity is largely all of us collectively muddling about trying to give each other what we need, for whatever reasons, rather than hoarding abundance for ourselves. Cooling down helps.

Generosity with room for roses.

Have a wonderful weekend.

 

 


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2024 Summer Trend: Crochet – 50 IS NOT OLD

2024 Summer Trend: Crochet – 50 IS NOT OLD

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Crochet items are full of texture and character, and they’re making a big comeback in the fashion world in 2024! I’m seeing this trend absolutely everywhere this season, and I’ve even got a few pieces on my wishlist. From adorable tanks and swim cover-ups to the cutest handbags and totes, I’m rounding up all of my favorite crochet pieces I’ve been seeing at your favorite retailers for Summer 2024.

2024 Summer Trend: Crochet

Accessories

Talbots Izzy Espadrille Flats

I saw these crochet flats and knew I had to share them! They look so cute and are breathable for hot summer days. I thought they would be the perfect shoe to transition your outfits into fall when sandal season is over but it’s still too hot to wear boots. They also come in pretty turquoise blue and navy.

Here’s a well-made, quality paper straw crochet tote bag that holds everything you could possibly need…. and more! It is a beautiful neutral tan, which is my favorite. The best thing about this bag is that it’s spacious and has lots of room for all your goodies.

Hand Crochet Tote Bag

I always say if you want to try a trend, accessories are the easiest way to try it out! This crochet tote is a great size for your everyday items. Plus, it will match everything in your closet and even look great with your outfits this fall. The tote has a gold lining that shines through the crochet.

The Sak Lumi Convertible Crossbody Purse

Here’s another crochet handbag by the same brand, in case you don’t like carrying around a giant tote. This one is a great bag for holding the essentials, like your phone, keys, wallet, a travel-sized bottle of lotion, and some lipgloss!

Apparel

Nordstrom Crochet Knit Sleeveless Cotton Blend Sweater

Let’s talk more about apparel! I know what you think—crochet sounds so hot for summer! But most of the pieces I’m sharing today are actually the opposite since they have lots of holes for great airflow. I love this sleeveless sweater, and you best believe I would be wearing it well into fall. Add a denim jacket or a white blazer on top, and you can wear this top from July to October!

Chico’s Crochet Gauze Trim Skirt

This maxi skirt from Chico’s is another super airy item that will keep you both cute and cool during the hottest days of the year. I would wear it with dressy sandals or a wedge, but it will look cute this fall with a boot.

Talbots Crochet Sweater Dress

You gurls know that I absolutely LOVE shopping at Talbots, and I found this gorgeous crochet dress on their website. It comes in XS-3X in regular and petite sizes. This is one you could easily dress up or down depending on which shoes and earrings you choose.

Swim Cover-Ups

ANRABESS Women Swimsuit Crochet Swim Cover Up

I’ve shared a lot of cover-ups and swimsuits this year, but now let’s talk about crochet cover-ups! This long-sleeve one comes in sooo many different colors and color combinations (like over 25!!!!). Imagine sitting on your friend’s boat in this classy black and white stripe cover-up or heading to a poolside lunch wearing this with a cute straw sunhat.

Jeasona Women’s Bathing Suit Cover Up

This is a popular one with almost 17,000 5-star ratings on Amazon! It looks super breathable and lightweight, which is important to help promote quick drying since nobody wants to wear a soaking wet, heavy cover-up on their walk back to the beach or lake house.

Bsubseach Crochet Cover Ups for Women

I know some of you gurls prefer your items to go past the knee to give you a little extra leg coverage. This cover up dress is a little longer in the front and the back! It does have some pretty high side slits, so if you want to wear it to a poolside lunch, you might want to slip some shorts underneath!

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The Q&A about my illustration career

The Q&A about my illustration career

Anna Wijnands at work in her atelier

When I just started out as an illustrator, I loved reading blogs by other illustrators about their illustration careers. It’s been very helpful to me. Now I’m at a point in my career where other illustrators ask me about my career and my life as an illustrator. So here’s a Q&A with the most frequently asked questions! Questions like: ‘How did you get to work for clients like Prada and Hallmark?’ I hope it’s helpful. If you have any other questions after reading this, feel free to leave a comment or send me an instagram DM!

How did I start my career?

I didn’t follow and art education but decided to study law, which I really enjoyed. It wasn’t my plan to pursue a career as an illustrator at that point in my life. A few years after graduating, I started posting some fashion illustrations on Instagram and I got my first commission through that platform. My first ever commission was to draw an invite to the Amsterdam Fashion Week show of the brand Tailor&Elbaz (now called Maria Tailor). Back then in 2015, I had just started dreaming about selling my artwork or somehow getting an income from it. I was very surprised to get such a high profile job as my first commission. But let me say this: I didn’t get paid for it (I didn’t ask for that either, because it was all so new to me) and it wasn’t a break-through moment. Still it was a very important moment because it gave me the confidence I needed to really start pursuing illustration as a career. And that year I registered myself at the Dutch Chamber of Commerce.

How did I get to my current portfolio and style?

Drawing fashion was my starting point. I’ve always loved fashion, mainly historical fashion. So I started out in that area. I did a few portfolio reviews with people from the illustration industry and they recommended me to expand my portfolio to other subjects. One of them called it ‘the feminine lifestyle’ which I think is a great description for what I draw now. What she meant is that I should add beauty, food and urban sketching illustrations to my portfolio which would still fit my style. It was one of the best pieces of advice I ever got. Drawing only fashion is too narrow a subject for most of us if you want to make a living out of it (although there are exceptions of course).

My style developed along the way. Mainly by just creating a lot! Really, drawing all the time is the best practice and the best way to develop your work. Not everything you create has to be perfect or beautiful. You learn the most when you don’t force yourself to be perfect. I’ve looked at work from other illustrators (past and present, René Gruau is a favourite) as well. There’s nothing wrong with that, as long as you don’t copy someones style exactly. But you can take inspiration from their drawing style and incorporate that into your own style!

How did I get my first clients?

Let’s go back to 2015. As I mentioned, my first commission did give confidence, but it wasn’t a break-through moment. It did however leed to another commission: my first live-drawing gig. When I shared that on my website and instagram, more live-illustration events started to come in. First mainly in regional boutiques and clothing stores in the Netherlands, but soon also for bigger brands. In 2016, Ted Baker asked me to draw live on tote-bags in the Bijenkorf department store in The Hague! How they found me? I’m not sure, but I think via google. They hired me from their head-office in London so they googled in English. Although I’m Dutch, my website is in English. And good SEO is everything!

How did I get the clients I currently work for?

I currently work for companies like Prada, Louis Vuitton and Dior. Sometimes I still have to pinch myself! How I got to this point? It all grew little by little over the years. Some clients come by word-of-mouth. But many still find me via google, Instagram and LinkedIn. Don’t underestimate the power of the internet. When you post on Instagram, you never know who’s watching. I once did a live-illustration event for Tudor Watch in Paris where I got to draw David Beckham. How they found me? They looked at the #liveillustration on Instagram…

So my main strategy is being easy to find in multiple places. Website, social media…etc. And I’m also a member of the Association of Illustrators . Their membership comes with a portfolio on their site as well.

What really helped me is this: begin clear on your ideal client. Determine for yourself who your ideal client is. And when you make illustrations for your portpolio (so personal projects, not commissions) mare sure you have the endsurer – your ideal client – in mind. Ask yourself: would this illustreation fit their brand? And how could they use it (packaging, event invites, during a live activation, as a mural… etc)? What value brings it to them?

From the start my goal was to work for companies like The Bijenkorf (a big luxury department store in The Netherlands) and maybe even Dior. It was scary to dream that big, hence the maybe. But only if you have a clear goal in mind, you can work towards it.

Something else that’s helpful in getting the clients you want: make sure your personal branding is on point. Strong personal branding can really make you stand out! And I just happen to have written

How do I determine my prices?

It can feel scary to ask a price that you consider as ‘high’. Believe me, I’ve been there. I started out with much lower prices than I currently ask. But I soon realised this wasn’t going to be sustainable if I actually wanted to make it my fulltime career. Now I have a good monthly income from illustration work. I’ve decided to only do brand/company work and no personal commissions. Mainly because I enjoy the type of work more, but also party because the budgets in that area are just much higher.

You have to be realistic if you want to do illustration as a career. You won’t just be a creative, you’ll also be an entrepreneur. So you’ll have to think like one. Give this a thought: What kind of work makes you happy AND helps you to pay the bills?

During the first years of freelancing I’ve kept a job on the side, so I knew I wasn’t completely depending on my illustration work financially. This gave me a bit more freedom and I would recommend it. 2019 was my fist year being completely freelance. I realised that if I wanted to make a living out of this, I had to raise my prices. The Association of Illustrators as a pricing tool which can help you to determine a suitable price. For live-illustration at location, I work with an hourly rate. For all other commissions I work with a flat rate which is based on time and the license for usage of the artwork by the client.

Do I see myself as an entrepreneur?

Yes I do! And that mindset has brought me so much. Your own believes can be limiting or they can make the sky the limit. Some examples of my ‘entrepreneur side’:

  1. I have several ‘income streams’ in my business: live illustration, commissions, my webshop (including wholesale) of tote bags and the commission I receive from sold Hallmark cards. Having multiple income streams ensures you’re not too dependent on just one type of work.

  2. I actively work on my own marketing and on being visible and easy to find online through SEO and social media platforms. I’m doing interviews sometimes and I’ve been on a podcast, which I would love to do more of!

  3. I have – what I would say – a healthy money mindset. That’s so important for any creative! There’s a narrative that tells us as long as you love what you do, you shouldn’t really ask money for it. But if that’s the case, how are you ever going to make a living from illustration? Read my blog on this topic here.

How do I arrange my finances?

I have a bookkeeper. Hiring one was one of the best business decisions I ever made. If you just start out, you can do taxes yourself. But as soon as you can afford it, get a bookkeeper! When I started my illustration career, I made sure to understand general Dutch taxes and how VAT works. Since a few years I also have a business bank account. It’s not mandatory in The Netherlands, but it helps to keep an overview of my finances and to keep money for my company separated from personal finances. The business account is split in 3 sub accounts: In number 1, the payments come in. I transfer the VAT to sub account 2 and the part I want to keep for business costs to sub account 3. The rest I use to pay myself an income and I transfer it to my personal bank account. I use a 1/3 vs 2/3 devision for the business costs (1/3 of every invoice) and my own income (2/3). I came up with that devision my self by the way, there’s no right or wrong here.

What were and are my struggles along the way?

Quite some to be honest… I think it’s not possible to have your own company without stumbling and falling from time to time. But it’s how you get up again that matters! That’s how you learn. When I just started out, I took on commissions that weren’t a good fit, my prices were much too low and so on. One of the most important things I’ve learnt in this regard is that your own expectations of a commission and those of the client might not be the same. So good communication and contracts are a necessity. And I’ve learnt to listen to my gut better. When I’m not sure if I should take on a commission because it doesn’t feel like the right fit, I won’t. This approach also helped me to build a portfolio with the kind of work that I really enjoy doing and to attract the right clients.

What are my recommendations for books, blogs and videos?

  • How to be an illustrator by Darrel Rees and Nicholas Belchman

  • Show Your Work! by Austin Kleon

  • Steal like an Artist by Austin Kleon

  • In Dutch: Wat een baas by Marthe Walter


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Social shopping rises with fashion and beauty top buys

Social shopping rises with fashion and beauty top buys

Almost half (47%) of UK consumers now shop on social media at least once a month. And that means there’s good news for fashion as 53% of purchases are for clothing, followed by beauty and skincare (34%) and gifts (34%).

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That’s the finding of research and insights firm UserTesting which surveyed 1,000 Britons about their social media use and shopping habits.

Unsurprisingly, social media shopping’s on the rise with 20% of Britons who use social media also shopping there for products at least once a week.

Some 34% of respondents rely on social media to see how products perform in real-world scenarios, and 24% use it for purchase inspiration. 

Social media also serves multiple roles in the customer journey, with users reading product reviews (18%) and researching products (19%) on these platforms. Some 28% also find this shopping channel more convenient than other methods.

Consumers are “highly influenced” by others’ use of products on social media with a 33% of UK respondents more likely to purchase something after seeing it used by others. Livestreams are particularly impactful, with 86% of Britons who watch livestreams o this channel saying they’re more likely to buy a product showcased this way.

Although 48% of respondents characterise their social media shopping experience as “positive” with purchases meeting expectations, not far behind (44%) also felt products sold “fell short of expectations”. 

Despite this, 72% of those dissatisfied would still use it for future shopping, highlighting the importance of convenience for modern shoppers.

Unplanned purchases are also common, with 41% of social media shopping being a mix of unplanned and planned buys. Nearly a third (27%) admit to making unplanned purchases.

Small purchases of less than £39 make up 44% of related retail sales in the UK and these range between £0.78 and £39.10. Also, 31% are comfortable spending between £39.88 and £78.19, and only 2% are willing to spend more than £78.20 through social media.

Lija Hogan, Principal of Enterprise Research Strategy at UserTesting, said: “Social media serves as both a virtual shop window and a hub for social proof through user reviews and user-generated content (UGC). Brands must include social media in their customer journey planning while maintaining excellent customer experiences to retain and attract customers.”

“It’s crucial for brands to manage their social media presence effectively. This includes developing a strong brand voice, implementing good customer service strategies, and understanding audience perceptions. Modern businesses cannot afford to neglect social media when interacting with customers.”
 

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The 5 Best Hotels in Mexico City (Updated 2024)

The 5 Best Hotels in Mexico City (Updated 2024)

The sunny view overlooking Mexico City, Mexico with mountains in the distance

Mexico City is a vibrant metropolis filled with great food, fun nightlife, amazing art, sprawling parks, and cool neighborhoods. I was late to visit (I just went for the first time a few years ago), and I can’t believe I hadn’t made the trip sooner. It’s an amazing city.

Colloquially known as CDMX (Ciudad de Mexico), Mexico City is a world-class destination that’s absolutely worth a visit. But it’s also a massive, sprawling city. There are a ton of hotels here, and choosing the right one is essential for ensuring that you have a safe and enjoyable stay.

Having been to the city a handful of times (and having even led tours there), I know what hotels are worth your money. Here’s my list of what I think are the best hotels in Mexico City:

1. Zócalo Central Mexico City

A stylish, moody hotel room at the Zocalo Central Mexico City Hotel in Mexico CityA stylish, moody hotel room at the Zocalo Central Mexico City Hotel in Mexico City
Housed in a late-19th-century building right on the Zócalo (the city’s main square), you can’t get any more centrally located than this four-star hotel. The rooftop bar has absolutely incredible views over the square, and I love that the complimentary breakfast is served up here every morning (you can get both Mexican dishes and continental breakfast staples like yogurt and granola). There are also free bicycles for guests, a fitness center, and a steam room. A really unique perk they offer is the 24/7 café in the lobby where everything is complimentary for guests (it serves items like coffee, tea, pastries, fruit, sandwiches, and other snacks). There are also fridges of free water and fruit on every floor. (If only all hotels had amenities like this!)

The guest rooms have a historic, moody feel, with stormy grey walls, dark hardwood floors, wood-beamed ceilings, and even chandeliers. Even though you’re right on the square, you can’t hear a thing once you close the double-glazed windows, allowing for a great night’s sleep. All rooms feature a desk, plus-sized TV, AC, safe, and a coffee machine. The bathrooms are a bit small but feature showers with excellent water pressure as well as complimentary toiletries. This is an excellent choice if you want to be close to many of the city’s main sights.

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2. Hotel Villa Condesa

A large bed in a bright hotel room at the Hotel Villa Condesa in Mexico CityA large bed in a bright hotel room at the Hotel Villa Condesa in Mexico City
This boutique property in Condesa is as leafy and stylish as the surrounding neighborhood. It’s housed in a 19th-century mansion and boasts a really cool interior courtyard that’s a calm oasis in the big city. A complimentary breakfast is served here every morning too (definitely try the chilaquiles and the huevos rancheros)!

Every one of the fifteen spacious and comfortable suites is different. Some are brightly decorated with colorful walls and couches, while others have a stately feel, with antique furniture and hardwood floors. Some rooms even have balconies, but all rooms come with a flatscreen TV and a desk. The bathrooms are a bit small but include complimentary toiletries and plush bathrobes. Since there are only a few rooms here, it feels really homey (the staff is really friendly and welcoming too), making it ideal for a quiet stay in one of the best neighborhoods of Mexico City.

Book here!

 

3. Gran Hotel Ciudad de México

A spacious hotel room at the Gran Hotel in Mexico City with a nice view looking out over the cityA spacious hotel room at the Gran Hotel in Mexico City with a nice view looking out over the city
This historic Art Nouveau hotel was built as a department store in 1899 and converted into a hotel for the 1968 Olympics. Featured in several James Bond films, this five-star property has an impressive interior lobby with a beautiful Tiffany stained-glass ceiling as well as wrought-iron elevators and balustrades. It’s right on the Zócalo, with two restaurants that serve Mexican cuisine as well as a fitness center. I especially like that you can take in views over the Zócalo while enjoying the expansive breakfast buffet. The only drawback of being right on the main square is that it can get a bit noisy if your room faces the square. (I personally prefer a quieter stay, so you can request an interior room if that’s the case for you as well.)

The huge rooms include classic wooden furniture that’s befitting of the hotel’s history (suites even have four-poster beds with curtains). Whether you choose a room or a suite, you’ll have a large TV, big work desk, a seating area, safe, coffee maker, and a mini bar. The marble bathrooms are spacious too, with bathrobes, slippers, and complimentary toiletries. Some even have both bathtubs and walk-in showers. Overall, this is the best choice for history lovers that are going to be focused on seeing the sites around the Zócalo.

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4. Green Park Hotel

A luxe and lavish hotel room at the Green Park Hotel in Mexico City, MexicoA luxe and lavish hotel room at the Green Park Hotel in Mexico City, Mexico
Housed in a gorgeous Art Deco building, The Green Park Hotel is directly across from the sprawling green oasis that is Chapultepec Park (the city’s largest park). It’s also in the middle of Polanco, a posh district known as the “Beverly Hills of Mexico.” The rooftop bar is a fun place to hang out, and there’s a complimentary breakfast too (though I personally don’t think it’s anything to write home about).

All rooms are large suites that are decorated in an aristocratic English style, with elegant wood furnishings, hardwood floors, and paintings on the walls. I really love the arched floor-to ceiling windows that offer views of either the adjacent park or the courtyard. The luxurious suites have nice desks, a seating area, and a smart TV. The large marble bathrooms feature both a jacuzzi and walk-in shower as well as complimentary toiletries and plush bathrobes. It’s a nice choice for a refined stay in a classy neighborhood.

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5. Ágata Hotel

A huge, comfortable bed at the Agata Hotel in Mexico City, MexicoA huge, comfortable bed at the Agata Hotel in Mexico City, Mexico
If you’re looking for something in a totally different area of the city, this super stylish hotel is in bohemian Coyoacán, the area made famous by Frida Kahlo (her home, now a museum, is less than a ten-minute walk away). This boutique property only has four rooms, and the staff really goes out of their way to ensure a personalized stay. The complimentary healthy breakfast is cooked to order, and you can choose from a variety of options, including chia seed pudding, freshly made eggs, and heaps of fresh fruit. I love that it’s served on the terrace too.

The spacious rooms are decorated in soft neutral tones, with wooden accenting and interesting ceiling lights that look like cool upside-down woven baskets. All rooms have a seating area, Nespresso machine, safe, plus-sized TVs while selected rooms also offer a balcony. The bathrooms are stunning, with exposed brick walls, deep soaking tubs, walk-in showers, plush robes, and luxurious toiletries. This hotel feels almost like a wellness retreat, making it a great place for a tranquil and intimate stay.

Book here!

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I love Mexico City. There’s a never-ending number of museums, great restaurants, and excellent mezcal bars to explore here. I think it’s one of the most fascinating cultural destinations in the world and a city more travelers to Mexico need to visit. Just make sure that you choose a hotel from the list above to ensure you have a great stay in this vibrant destination!

Book Your Trip to Mexico City: Logistical Tips and Tricks

Book Your Flight
Use Skyscanner to find a cheap flight. They are my favorite search engine because they search websites and airlines around the globe so you always know no stone is left unturned!

Book Your Accommodation
You can book your hostel with Hostelworld as they have the biggest inventory and best deals. If you want to stay somewhere other than a hostel, use Booking.com as they consistently return the cheapest rates for guesthouses and cheap hotels.

If you’re looking for a hostel, here are my favorite hostels in Mexico City.

And for the best neighborhoods in the city, this post can help you pick the best area of the city to stay in.

Don’t Forget Travel Insurance
Travel insurance will protect you against illness, injury, theft, and cancellations. It’s comprehensive protection in case anything goes wrong. I never go on a trip without it as I’ve had to use it many times in the past. My favorite companies that offer the best service and value are:

Looking for the Best Companies to Save Money With?
Check out my resource page for the best companies to use when you travel. I list all the ones I use to save money when I’m on the road. They will save you money when you travel too.

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How We Quit Our Jobs to Travel: Our Journey from 2008 to Now

How We Quit Our Jobs to Travel: Our Journey from 2008 to Now

This was the most exciting and most difficult time of our lives, and there was a time when we thought we might break up over it.

A lot of Instagrammers, Bloggers and YouTubers (including us) are always talking about how great it is to live a freedom life.

One where you can work from anywhere in the world, hardly work any hours per week and have money rolling in thanks to passive income streams like digital product sales, sponsors, ads, and affiliates.

But one part they always seem to miss out on is the act of actually making that change. Quitting a job isn’t easy.

When we were leading up to this enormous shift in our lives, we had tons of questions running through our minds:

“What if this is the stupidest decision we ever made?”

“What if we can’t figure out a way to sustain this life on the road?”

“What if we can’t sell this house?”

“What do we do with all of our stuff?”

We were actually terrified leading up to the moment we quit our jobs.

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Having run this blog now for over a decade, with millions of people visiting it every year, we figured it was finally time to talk about the story of our life transformation.

How we went from $12,000 in debt working and 60-80 hours per week at jobs we didn’t enjoy, to traveling the world, working from the road, loving our jobs, and working a fraction of the hours that we did in Canada.

In this article, I’m going to share the timeline of our journey from our old lives, to this new one.

I’m also going to share some tips that I hope will help you if you’ve ever considered this type of transition, and I’ll share some resources that weren’t available to us 16 years ago, but are available now and can make the transition a lot easier.

A Backstory

For those of you who are new here, we didn’t always run remote businesses while traveling the world and living abroad full time.

So here’s a bit of backstory…

Up until 2008, we both had good jobs in Canada.

Me working on the Oil Rigs in Canada in 2006

Not “good jobs” in that they were jobs that we actually enjoyed… but good jobs in that they paid well (I worked on the Oil Rigs and later as a heavy machine operator, and Dariece was a Real Estate Legal Assistant).

We were pretty young. At 24 we had everything set out in front of us.

We already owned a condominium right in downtown Calgary.

We had a nice car.

We were earning over six figures per year and we were growing our “nest egg” as they call it back home.

We had the new TV, the fancy clothes, and went on some pretty posh week-long holidays. We were living a good life for a young Canadian couple.

selling your possessions for travel before you learn how to get paid to travel
The condominium that we sold to have money for travel

On the surface… everything was awesome. Which is why I think it came as such a shock to our family when we told them we’re quitting our jobs, selling everything and going to travel the world… but I’ll get to that later.

We weren’t trust fund babies and neither of us had education beyond high school, so we actually felt like we had accomplished a lot at a pretty young age.

But there was definitely something missing.

First of all… I hated my job.

I loved the pay checks for sure… but everything else about my job as a heavy machine operator was depressing.

I had recently quit my job at the oil rigs. That job allowed me to pay off the $12,000 worth of debt that I mentioned at the start of this article, but that job was even worse than the heavy machine operating job so I had to quit.

When I had all of that debt, I was convinced that that was a big part of the reason I wasn’t content with my life.

I would say things to myself like: “If I could just pay off all of this debt, then I’d have money to buy the things I want and I’ll be happy.”

the plant Nick worked in
The plant where I worked

But that didn’t happen. The debt was gone… money was in the bank… but that feeling still lingered.

That feeling of:

“This can’t be it… can it?”

I went from one gruelling, physical job to another.

It wasn’t so much the physical labor that I disliked. It was the culture of the workplace.

I was lucky enough to work mainly with one guy, Aaron, who became like my best friend at the plant… and there were some really nice people working there… but for the most part, nobody wanted to be there.

People complained on every short coffee break about how they didn’t get any respect from management, or about how so-and-so was such a lazy worker and they had to pick up all of the slack.

Hard Work in Canada Plant Printing Press

Older guys, the ones who had been there for 40+ years, were constantly cautioning me to get out while I was still young.

They’d say things like:

“When I was your age I thought I’d just work in this plant for a few years and pay off my debt and then find some work I really love… now I’ll be retiring here in a couple of years and didn’t enjoy a single minute working in this hell hole.”

I’m paraphrasing, but believe me, the actual conversations had a lot more expletives and negative sentiment than that. Plus they were repeated almost daily.

The atmosphere was toxic. It was mindless work that paid the bills, but did little else to satisfy any human needs.

The plant was devoid of sunlight, it smelled like chemicals, and it was deafeningly loud.

But the hardest part of the whole situation, aside from the atmosphere, was the fact that I was only allowed 10 days holiday per year.

5 days in the summer, and 5 days in the winter.

Barely enough to do any real travel, besides maybe an all-inclusive resort down in Mexico where we could lay on the beach, sip margaritas and try to recover from a year of constant work.

Dariece’s situation was quite a bit different.

For one, she got 15 days holiday per year (still not enough), but she actually enjoyed her workplace, her colleagues, and all the perks that came with working at a law firm.

She just didn’t like the pressure, stress and the whole routine of getting up early, dressing the part, coming home late, dinner…repeat.

She had a better office atmosphere, and she didn’t have to work graveyard shifts like I did.

But she was the more enthusiastic traveler of the two of us and it crushed her that she couldn’t have any significant time off.

We both felt like we’d already been working for 8 years of our lives that could’ve been spent doing something else.

The FOMO was real.

There had to be more to life than this, right?

But how?

The Lightbulb Moment…

It all happened on one of those short all-inclusive holiday trips to Mexico that pretty much all Canadians and Americans seem to take obligatorily.

For most of the trip, we did what everyone around us did.

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We sat around the loungers on the beach and by the pool, swimming up for the occasional cocktail.

We dragged ourselves to a fancy 5-star a la carte meal each night and then passed out to repeat the next day.

The goal was to get as tan (or in my case, burnt) as possible so that when we went back to work people said things like:

“Wow! Someone’s been enjoying the beach!”

Those comments were like badges of honour for those of us who otherwise did little else besides work, eat and sleep.

I have to say… these trips were a lot of fun and they felt SO needed after the hard work we were doing back home.

But on this particular trip, one day we decided to do something different.

We hopped on an ATV tour to go check out some nearby cenotes and some local villages.

Us on that ATV tour in Tulum back in 2007
Us on that ATV tour in Tulum back in 2007

We thought we were being so intrepid by actually leaving the resort in Mexico, which is hilarious to think of now.

Looking back at the photos, I realize that this is one of the most touristy things we could’ve been doing in Mexico.

But still… the tour was a blast.

The moment that changed everything was when we passed by a local village.

The locals heard the ATVs approaching and they all ran out to wave hello.

Probably the same parents and kids did the same thing to every tour that went by.

But we had a moment with them.

Instantly I thought… I don’t want to just whizz past on an ATV.

I want to actually stop and walk around.

I’d like to ask them questions about their life… maybe learn some of their language… taste their food… find out about their lives and what they do for fun.

It was a total lightbulb moment.

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A flash of realization in a young 23 year old kid who had only left Canada a couple of times to visit the US and, now, Mexico.

It was a sudden realization that there was an entire world out there to see and experience, and at this rate, I’d be working so much of my life that I’d hardly end up experiencing any of it.

That moment on the ATVs changed everything… or at least… the seed was planted.

A few days later, that short 1 week vacation came to an end and again the feelings of dread returned.

I knew I’d be back at work in less than 24 hours.

The plane would bring me right back to the chemical-filled plant where I’d go back to work for at least 6 more months before “earning” myself another 1 week holiday.

Part of me must’ve imagined at that point what it would be like to continue exploring the world full-time… but that thought was so far from my reality at the time that it likely didn’t linger long.

The two words that changed our lives forever…

It was probably around 3 months after returning home from Canada that it happened.

I had a particularly shitty day at work. My boss was screaming at me for a mistake that was the machine’s fault, it was 40°C inside the plant and I worked for 12 and a half hours straight with barely enough time to have water.

Days at the plant weren’t always like this, but this wasn’t the first really bad day at work and I knew it wouldn’t be the last.

Boss yelling at work plant press

I stormed out of the plant that day after my shift was over and swore to myself that I wasn’t going to work there forever.

I was going to take the advice of the old-timers and not waste my entire life making plastic bags for big corporations.

There had to be more to life than working for a pay check that I’d use to buy stuff I didn’t need, to impress people I didn’t like, all while living a life that I didn’t even sign up for.

I got in my car and sped out of that parking lot like I was on a mission, but at that point I had no idea what that mission was.

When I got home, I went onto the internet and started Googling (Or maybe it was MSN back then? I don’t remember…), but I was searching for: “what is ‘backpacking’?”.

I remembered when I was a kid my aunt did this “backpacking” thing around Europe, but I didn’t even know what it really meant.

How do you get from place to place?

Where do you stay?

How much does it cost?

How do you communicate?

Somewhere in those frantic web searches I happened across a blog about gap years.

Google search "what is backpacking" screenshot of Google web page

I don’t know, maybe it was Nomadic Matt’s blog. He was probably about the only one travel blogging back in 2007.

But I was suddenly introduced to the idea of an entire year off work.

As a Canadian, this concept had never even crossed my mind.

We don’t really do “gap years”.

We finish high school and then either go to work or college. There’s no “time to find yourself“.

There’s barely time to find a yourself a job.

This new keyword took me down a rabbit hole of intrepid travellers who saved up money to literally travel the world for a year or more.

By the time Dariece came home from work, I was absolutely buzzing.

She barely made it through the door when I asked her that fateful question….

“If you could travel anywhere in the world for a year… where would it be?”

Without any hesitation she answered “Southeast Asia”.

Those two words changed our lives forever.

So that was it. We would make this happen… no matter what.

It’s time to quit our jobs…

The idea of quitting our jobs was terrifying.

We were well aware of how fortunate we were to have them.

We knew that if we stayed at those jobs, our lives would be pretty much set.

Really don’t miss this very much!

We’d always have the bills paid.

We’d be able to easily save for our future.

We’d be able to afford a comfortable house and a nice car…

But we also knew that life wasn’t for us.

We wanted to see the world. We wanted to live the next 50, 60, or 70 years of our lives without the regret of never giving it a shot.

We wanted to live every moment like it was our last (as cliche as that sounds, there’s no better way to word it).

And while we had no idea how we’d make that happen beyond the one year we’d saved enough money for… we knew there had to be a chance.

If some random blogger online can do it… surely we can too.

So within about 10 months since the 2 fateful words were spoken, and thanks to working A LOT of overtime and managing to sell our house and our car, we had about $25,000 CAD to travel with.

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The map we used to plan our first trip, with Post-it notes for border crossings and travel time.

Our goal was to travel the world on $50 CAD per day including all flights, accommodation, food and experiences.

That would be a total of $18,250 for the year, and then we could come back with a little bit of buffer money to figure out our next steps.

Even with more money in our banks than we had ever seen before… we were still scared to quit.

Our families were supportive of the entire idea of us traveling, but we could hear the worry their voices when we told them we were quitting our jobs.

There were a few “Are you sure you want to do this?”.

But we knew we had to do it.

However… actually quitting my job wasn’t so easy.

I’d love to tell you that I still remember the day I quit like it was yesterday.

That I walked into my bosses office and threw my letter of resignation at him and said “I QUIT!”

I quit my job

But the truth is, I barely remember it.

I remember telling him I was going to go traveling, and I vaguely remember him saying something about me being able to come back when we returned… but the rest is a blur.

Honestly I think part of me blocked out the memory.

Even though looking back now, that was easily the best decision I ever made, and I can’t even imagine my life if I had stayed there… I think it was so terrifying at the time that I just lost the memory of it.

Dariece and I almost break up…

Not surprisingly… selling a house and a car, storing all of your things, working 80 hours per week to save money and then uprooting your life to travel to a foreign land is pretty stressful.

Stressful enough that it almost broke me and Dariece.

Not to mention, we had only been dating for about a year when we began planning this first world trip, so we didn’t even know if we were going to get along while traveling.

As the trip deadline approached, we were arguing about everything and it was stressful.

Planning Our Independent Trek In Mongolia

Now, after 17 years together and having pretty much no fights that entire time… it’s clear to us that the pressure was just getting to us back then.

We’ve come to realize that during the biggest transformative times in our lives, our old selves hold on to how things were.

We want to keep the norm. We desperately grasp on to what we’ve known for a long time and that causes friction within us that translates to frustration between each other.

But what we’ve also learned is that in those moments come the biggest positive changes in our lives.

Luckily we made it through the bickering and we boarded our flight on November 17, 2008.

And yes… it was an enormous positive change in our lives.

Lift-off

While the memory of me actually quitting my job still evades me… the memory of the plane wheels leaving the tarmac in Calgary International Airport on November 17, 2008 are engraved in my mind forever.

Calgary airport

That feeling was one I can’t really explain.

All of the stress and anxiety of selling the house, saving enough money, storing our things, quitting our jobs, telling our families, and then planning an epic 1 year trip around the world suddenly left and I could physically feel a weight lifting from my shoulders.

On top of that, it suddenly hit me that I’d just left Canada and I wouldn’t be back for a year.

I had spent the last 8 years of my life without more than a week off per year, and before that I was in school since I was 4 years old.

This would be the first time in my life I’d have complete freedom for more than a few weeks at a time.

Experiences like that incredible ATV tour in Mexico could happen to me every day for the next 365 days.

I had no idea what to expect… but I knew it was going to change me forever.

Two and a half years on the road… how do we do this forever?

Fast forward to 2012. We finished that first year long trip around Southeast Asia, which actually ended up being 13 months.

Then we went back to work our same jobs in Canada to save up for another trip. That’s right, when both of our bosses found out we were back in the country, they called to offer us our jobs back!

But this time it wasn’t just Southeast Asia, it was a world trip.

And this time we swore to ourselves that we’d find a way to keep traveling and living abroad forever.

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One of our favorite photos from the second world trip. Alone at the Pyramids of Giza.

But then there we were…. again nearing the end of that trip.

We’d had the most amazing 2.5 years on the road that we could’ve ever imagined.

We made so many friends, learned so much, tasted so many different types of food… it felt like our minds were expanding with every day on the road.

But then the same familiar dread returned.

The bank account was low and it was going to be time to go home and get those same jobs back… again.

If they’d even take us back again.

“Not this time”, we thought.

We’ve gotta figure out a way to make this our lifestyle.

It all came to a head when Dariece had an emotional breakdown on a beach on Koh Phangan Island in Thailand.

Us enjoying wine from homemade wine glasses (plastic cups taped to palm fronds) in Koh Phangan in 2012

We had a few weeks, maybe a month worth of travel money left and it was inevitable that it was going to run out.

Dariece started crying on the beach when it hit her.

There was nothing that we both wanted more than to keep traveling around the world.

How could we possibly go back now?

We had become so detached from our 9-5 jobs and that lifestyle that it didn’t even feel like it would be possible for us to go back.

We were like puzzle pieces that no longer fit into the picture of our home lives.

Seeing Dariece crying on the beach set something off in me.

things to do in koh phangan

She was terrified of what all of this meant, so I told her what any young guy probably says when his girlfriend is crying and he has no idea what to do….

“We’re going to figure this out. Don’t worry. We will make this work.”

From there I went straight online and started looking for ways to make money on the road.

We were supposed to have found jobs on this trip, but we got lost in the excitement of travel and never even looked… so now it was do or die.

I found a few listings of schools in China who would hire English Teachers but all the forums I was reading said that you needed a University Degree to get a job, something both Dariece and I didn’t have.

I went back to Dariece and said: “We’re going to China. Once we get there we’ll find a job.”

We had no idea how we were going to do that, or if it would even be possible to work without a degree, but we went anyway.

A couple of weeks later we were on a plane to China.

Teaching in China… the gateway to remote freedom.

We were in China for a week or so when I finally decided to take the job hunt seriously.

We had seen a listing for an English teaching job posted at a cafe on one of the first few days in the country, so one Friday afternoon we decided to go around to a bunch of different cafes and look for similar listings.

Us traveling around China in 2012

Sure enough, on bulletin boards in pretty much every cafe and small restaurant, there were listings for English teaching jobs with emails printed on them.

I probably emailed about 5 or 6 different schools that day.

Then we waited for replies. But of course it was the weekend.

So Saturday passed…

And Sunday…

And then just as the idea of teaching was being replaced by more epic travels around China… we got an email.

Then another…

Then another…

I’m pretty sure every single school emailed us back.

Within 10 days we had hopped on a couple of calls with the head of schools and settled on Shane English School in Yangzhou, China.

We lucked out.

With so many horror stories coming out of China about schools not paying teachers or not helping them find accommodation, but we had the best experience ever.

teaching children English in China

We loved teaching our students and our one year contract flew by.

China was a blast.

Remote freedom at last…

Just before we got the job teaching English in China, we had started a blog.

It was more just a way to share our travels with our friends and family, but we did know of one blogger who was actually making money from it.

His name is Johnny Ward and today he’s a good friend of ours, but back then he was just a god-like hero who had somehow managed to fund his travels by sharing photos and writing blog posts online.

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Catching up with our friend Johnny over some craft beers in Bangkok

Because of Johnny’s inspiring blog posts about making from his blog and social media, we kept at it.

We worked on our blog the entire time we were teaching English in China.

We didn’t work a lot of hours on it. We had to teach around 20 hours per week, so we’d spend about 10 or 15 hours per week on the blog.

Even though at one point I gave up on it because I didn’t feel like it was going anywhere… luckily Dariece kept up with it, and after just 8 months we earned a little bit of money from it.

We sold calendars and gift cards with our photos on them which mostly our family bought from us.

making money from selling products online

We made $588 in the month of December 2012 and we were ecstatic.

Then we made exactly $0 from the blog for nearly 6 months until in June of 2013 the business made it’s first “real money”.

We started getting advertisers contacting us, and despite not knowing ANYTHING about how to start a successful blog, slowly the blog grew and so did the income.

We went from $500 to $5,000 per month, $5,000 to $25,000 and the revenue just kept growing from there.

Suddenly we had a real business.

We were traveling the world and living the life we always dreamed of, doing something we loved and earning multiple times more than we ever did in Canada.

We could’ve never imagined this…

Honestly when we look back at those first few blog posts we wrote, or those first few shares we did on social media, we could’ve never imagined that it would turn into what it is today.

It still amazes us that our businesses run on autopilot. Generating enough income to travel the world, live overseas and save for our future.

We are so grateful every day for this life that it has created for us.

And the fact that we’ve been able to do it not just once, but 4 times over, and the fact that the students in our blogging courses have followed our methods and had the same results, means it’s repeatable.

It’s an amazing time we live in right now. We thank the “internet gods” every day for allowing us to have a creative outlet, build a fun community, and earn a full-time income all while traveling around the world and working from our PJs.

I know this sounds too good to be true… and 12 years ago if you told me I’d be doing this today, I’d say the same thing.

But there are thousands of people turning their passions into real, life-changing businesses online and it’s happening every day.

Why isn’t everyone doing it?

Over the years, our courses including our Beginner Blogging Course and our Complete SEO Course have helped over 1,000 people start their own online businesses.

But we know from teaching all of those people that the biggest thing when it comes to being successful building a remote business is having community, accountability, and guidance to keep you focused on the right things.

In my opinion, there are a few reasons why so many people fail…

Feeling overwhelmed…

There are a million things people think they have to do when they first start building a brand online.

But really, you just need to focus on a few things, and do them right.

Picking the wrong niche…

For one, you need to pick the right niche right off the bat. People spend years aimlessly posting about THE WRONG THING simply because they didn’t narrow down their audience, didn’t do the right market research, and didn’t ask themselves the right questions before getting started.

This game can be lonely…

Everyone needs accountability. They need to know that what they’re doing is going to work and to have some encouragement along the way.

Accountability from a mentor, and from a group of people in a similar situation is vital in actually being successful at this.

I honestly believe that the vast majority of people give up just before they hit it big, and it’s not because they aren’t good enough. It’s because they didn’t have someone there to tell them that they were on the right path.

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We have useful pre-recorded lessons and modules to walk each person through EXACTLY what is needed to build a remote business quickly…oh, and we also have a lot of fun!

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11 Best Places to Visit in September USA (2024)

11 Best Places to Visit in September USA (2024)

Looking for the best places to visit in September USA? Well, September in the USA has a lot of perks. Autumn arrives, and the weather is nice, the temperatures are milder, and the fall foliage starts to show up in the north. It’s the end of the peak season, so there are no more summer crowds at popular spots; there are shorter lines at attractions and more chill sightseeing. And the off-season means lower prices for airfare, accommodations, and car rentals, so it’s a more budget-friendly time to visit.

September is also full of cultural events, festivals, and various state fairs. Sports fans can get in on the start of the NFL and college football seasons and the end of the baseball season. Nature is stunning, with the early fall landscapes and great conditions, and national parks like Arcadia and Arches are also great places to visit. Coastal destinations still have warm weather for beach vacations, and wine regions like Napa Valley are celebrating harvest season with special experiences. Overall, September has good weather, cultural richness, and cost savings, so it’s the perfect time to see all the US has to offer.

Best Places to Travel In September USA

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We’ve been to all of these places, and that’s why they made the list. For example, Sedona has the perfect combination of mild weather, fall colors, and natural wonders like Devil’s Bridge, making it a great September destination. Bar Harbor becomes a fall wonderland in September with peak foliage at Acadia National Park. Even Chicago is great in September, with perfect weather to see the architecture, lakefront, and cultural events like the Chicago Jazz Festival.

Regardless of how many of the places you decide to visit in September, we can guarantee that at least one of them will leave a lasting impression on you.

1. Sedona, Arizona: A Desert Paradise in September

Hiking in Sedona, ArizonaHiking in Sedona, Arizona

September is the time Sedona, Arizona shows off its desert magic. 77°F during the day and 55°F at night, it’s the perfect September escape. You can hike the national parks, hike the red rock formations, enjoy the fall colors, hike the trails without the summer heat. Picture the scenery with fewer crowds and nature all around you.

Devil’s Bridge, a natural rock formation with 360-degree views, is a must-see in Sedona. The hike to Devil’s Bridge is an adventure in itself, you’ll hike through some of the best of Sedona’s scenic trails. For those looking for a thrill, exploring Sedona Canyon by ATV or taking a jeep tour through the western canyons is a great way to see the sights.

Sedona is also known for its spiritual energy, the famous Chapel of the Holy Cross, and the mysterious vortexes that many believe to have healing properties. Whether you’re a spiritual seeker or just curious, visiting these sites is a powerful experience. For a bird’s eye view, consider a helicopter tour to see Devil’s Bridge and Boynton Canyon under the clear September skies.

When you come in September, be sure to add Red Rock State Park to your list. Hiking, bird watching, archaeology hikes all set against the fall colors of Sedona. Whether you hike, ATV or soak up the spiritual energy, Sedona will be an September to remember.

2. Lake Tahoe, California: Nature’s Playground

Visiting Lake Tahoe, CaliforniaVisiting Lake Tahoe, California

Lake Tahoe is a nature lover’s paradise, and we believe that September is the best time to visit. Warm days and cool nights make it perfect for hiking, kayaking, and just lounging on the beach. The fall colors add a pop of color to the already gorgeous landscape, so it’s the perfect spot to enjoy this California lakeside.

Hiking trails around Lake Tahoe offer views and a chance to get into the natural beauty of the area. Whether you’re hiking the trails or driving around the lake, you’ll see stunning views everywhere you turn.

Some of our favorite activities around Lake Tahoe are hiking the scenic trails, driving around the lake and kayaking on the calm waters to take in the fall colors reflected in the water.

Besides outdoor adventures, Lake Tahoe has a range of events in September to suit everyone’s interests. From the Heavenly Village Midway Art and Music Festival to the Fall Ale Fest and Chicken Wing Cook-Off, there’s something for everyone. If you’re a farm-to-fork fan, the Sample the Sierra festival at Bijou Community Park is a must.

I think it is obvious why we suggest visiting Lake Tahoe in the fall.

3. Bar Harbor, Maine: The Perfect Fall Escape

Acadia National Park in SeptemberAcadia National Park in September

Bar Harbor, Maine, a typical New England town on the East Coast, becomes a wonderland of color in September. Located in the Downeast region and just a short drive from Rhode Island, this charming coastal town is the perfect spot for a September staycation. The cool days and crisp evenings are perfect for outdoor adventures in one of the US’s most beautiful national parks, Acadia National Park.

Acadia is famous for its fall colors, and September is the best time to visit when the colors peak at the end of the month. The park offers many activities, including hiking the North Bubble, the Great Head Trail, and the Beehive Trail. You can also kayak along the coast or take a scenic flight over the park to see the views from above. Another way to experience the fall colors is to hop on the Downeast Scenic Railroad and take a vintage train ride through the color.

After a day of outdoor adventures, the town of Bar Harbor is waiting for you. Walk the streets, enjoy seasonal drinks at the local cafes, and eat at Geddy’s and Stewman’s. Get to experience the beauty and calm of this coastal town with fewer tourists around.

4. Chicago, Illinois: Enjoying the Windy City’s Best Weather

Downtown Chicago in SeptemberDowntown Chicago in September

Chicago is more known for its cold and windy weather than for its mid- to mild temperatures, which is why September is the perfect time to visit. The weather is just right for outdoor activities, so it’s the ideal time to see the Windy City’s architectural wonders, world-class museums, and lakefront. The good weather starts in early September and goes all month, so it’s the perfect time to do everything in Chicago.

A September highlight is the lakefront. Whether you’re taking a stroll, having a picnic, or just soaking up the views, the lakefront is a must-see. Don’t miss the Chicago Riverwalk, where you can dine, boat, and take in the river views, which are especially great in September. And if you’re an architecture buff, the city’s landmarks will blow your mind.

Chicago is a cultural city, and in September, it celebrates its diversity. From the Chicago Jazz Festival to the World Music Festival, there’s no lack of live music and cultural events. And don’t forget the food scene – September is the start of the food season with various food festivals and farmers markets showcasing Chicago’s best. Whether you’re checking out the outdoor concerts and art installations in Millennium Park or visiting world-class museums like the Art Institute of Chicago, September is the perfect time to enjoy the city’s best weather and attractions.

5. Hudson Valley, New York: A Scenic Autumn Retreat

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Hudson Valley, NY, is a pretty place that comes alive in September. Famous for its national parks, scenic trails, and charming towns, it’s the ultimate fall getaway. The cooler temps and views make it the perfect time to get out and enjoy the area’s natural beauty and arts scene.

One of the best things about visiting Hudson Valley in September is apple picking. Do it while taking in the fall colors. Scenic drives through the hills and along the Hudson River are stunning, and many hiking trails show off the fall colors.

Hudson Valley is also home to cultural events and a thriving arts scene. The Upstate Art Weekend is an art and culture celebration with open galleries, museums, and studios. The Hudson Valley Shakespeare Festival offers great theater in a beautiful outdoor setting. For a peek into the area’s past, take a guided tour of the Armour-Stiner Octagon House, a restored historic gem.

Whether you’re wandering through towns or diving into culture, Hudson Valley is a fall getaway to add to your September bucket list.

6. Oregon Coast, Oregon: Coastal Adventures Await

Beachcombing in Oregon Coast, OregonBeachcombing in Oregon Coast, Oregon

The Oregon Coast is a haven for coastal enthusiasts, and trust me, there is no better time to visit than in September. Fewer crowds and nice weather makes it perfect for beachcombing, whale watching and exploring the coastline. Cannon Beach (our personal favorite), with its famous Haystack Rock, is a must-see and offers guided tidepool tours and gray whale migration viewing.

The Sea Lion Caves, America’s largest naturally formed sea cave is a highlight of the Oregon Coast. This natural wonder is home to the Steller sea lion and you can see these magnificent creatures in their natural habitat. The caves have been a wildlife preserve and bird sanctuary since 1932 so it’s a big deal for nature lovers.

And, of course, the Oregon Coast has charming coastal towns to wander around. Whether you’re driving the scenic coastal highway, eating at local restaurants, or just taking in the views, the Oregon Coast has plenty to see and do.

7. Charleston, South Carolina: Southern Charm in the Fall

Charleston, South Carolina in the eveningCharleston, South Carolina in the evening

Charleston, South Carolina is pure southern charm in September when the temps cool down to 76°F. The historic district with cobblestone streets and preserved architecture is perfect for strolling and horse drawn carriage rides. The cooler weather and lower humidity makes it the perfect time to get outside and see the city.

The Charleston City Market, a National Historic Landmark since the 1790s, is a must-see in Charleston. This busy market is filled with little shops and local artisans, giving you a glimpse into the city’s rich history and culture. Another highlight that shows off the city’s history is the Magnolia Plantation and Gardens one of the oldest plantations in the South. The grounds and guided tours will give you a deep dive into the region’s history and biodiversity.

If you want to get out of the city, the nearby plantations will give you a taste of the area’s history. These historical sites with big houses and big gardens are a great day trip to learn more about the troubled history of the southern USA.

8. San Diego, California: Endless Summer Fun

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It may feel like summer all year round in Sandiego, but there are a ton of reasons to visit one of our favorite California cities in September. With beautiful beaches, world-class attractions, and tons of outdoor activities, it’s a great time to be here. The summer crowds are gone, but the summer heat is still here, so it’s perfect for a beach day or to hit the city highlights.

Some of the top attractions in San Diego are Balboa Park, with multiple museums and gardens, as well as La Jolla Cove, with some great hiking and scenery. San Diego’s beaches offer surfing, swimming and even dolphin spotting. These attractions and art galleries are a must see for families and animal lovers and a cultural treat for visitors.

San Diego has tons of events in September, too. The Craft Beer Festival runs through early September, and you can try over 100 craft brews, wines, and cocktails. The Del Mar Wine + Food Festival is a must-see and is the best part of the city’s food and drink scene. San Diego Restaurant Week is another foodie highlight where you can get special menus and deals at participating restaurants to experience the city’s food and drink culture.

9. Taos, New Mexico: Art and History in the High Desert

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I am sure that most people have never even heard of Taos in New Mexico. That is what makes this such a unique addition to the list. The reason we decided to add it is because it does a great job of combining art, history, and outdoor adventure in a high desert landscape. Known for its rich cultural heritage, Taos has a mix of Native American, Spanish, and Anglo influences that are evident in its architecture, food, and traditions. September is the perfect time to experience this culture, weather is great and there are many cultural events.

Some of the top attractions in Taos are the Taos Pueblo, a UNESCO World Heritage Site, for an authentic Native American experience. The San Francisco de Asis Church in Ranchos de Taos is a historical site, and the Millicent Rogers Museum and the many galleries on Ledoux Street are the hub of the art scene.

And, of course, Taos is also an outdoor adventure destination. The area has many trails, views, and activities like hiking and biking. Whether you’re strolling the historic Taos Plaza or eating traditional Northern New Mexican food at Ranchos Plaza Grill, Taos has it all for September.

10. Moab, Utah

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Moab is the ultimate outdoor playground in September when the weather is perfect. Highs in the 70s and 80s, hiking, biking, and rafting weather. The town is the gateway to some of the most beautiful and breathtaking national parks in the country, Arches and Canyonlands National Parks.

Arches National Park is famous for its natural stone arches, spires and sandstone formations. Hike the many trails or take a scenic drive and you’ll be amazed. Canyonlands National Park with its many hiking and biking trails offers equally stunning views and the chance to get immersed in Utah’s rugged beauty.

And, of course, Moab has plenty of amenities for visitors, such as hotels, vacation rentals, campgrounds, and RV parks. Adventure or relaxation, Moab has it all in September.

11. Santa Barbara, California

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Santa Barbara, California, is a stylish coastal haven in September. With sunny weather and highs of 74°F, it’s the perfect time for a laid-back coastal getaway. Clear skies and no rain mean it’s ideal for outdoor activities and exploring the neighborhoods.

A September highlight in Santa Barbara is the plethora of events and festivals throughout the month. You can see big-name artists at the Santa Barbara Bowl, meet local artists and see their work during the Santa Barbara Studio Artists’ Open Studios Tour, and get a taste of the region’s artistic talent at the Santa Barbara Sea Glass & Ocean Arts Festival. And the Margaritas y Más Festival is a celebration of the region’s food. These events will add fun and culture to your Santa Barbara visit.

If you like being outside, Santa Barbara’s beaches are the places to go for sunset kayaking or dinner with a view. The laid-back coastal vibe and cultural scene make Santa Barbara a sweet September escape.

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September is a month of transition, and these top destinations across the USA have the perfect mix of summer and fall. From the spiritual energy of Sedona to the fall color of Bar Harbor, each place is different and caters to different tastes. Whether you’re visiting the architecture of Chicago, the natural beauty of Lake Tahoe, or the charming towns of Hudson Valley, there’s something for everyone.

As you plan your September vacation, don’t forget to take in the cultural history of Taos, the coastal adventures of the Oregon Coast, or the endless summer of San Diego. Each place will give you memories and views that will inspire you. So pack up and go on a fall adventure that will revitalize your soul and fill your heart.

Frequently Asked Questions

What makes Sedona, Arizona, a great September destination?

Sedona in September is great for cooler weather to get outside and hike and explore national parks and spiritual sites.

Why is Bar Harbor, Maine, ideal for a fall escape?

Bar Harbor in the fall is perfect because of fall foliage, Acadia National Park adventures, fewer tourists, and a charming town in September, so you can enjoy nature without the crowds.

What are the highlights of visiting Chicago in September?

Visiting Chicago in September means nice weather to see the architecture, lakefront, and world-class museums and cultural events like the Chicago Jazz Festival.

What activities can I enjoy in Lake Tahoe, California, in September?

In September, you can enjoy hiking, kayaking, and relaxing on the beach in Lake Tahoe, California, while taking in the vibrant fall foliage and attending local events. So, get ready for an exciting outdoor adventure!

Why should I consider visiting the Oregon Coast in September?

You should consider visiting the Oregon Coast in September because you can enjoy beachcombing, whale watching, and iconic sites like Cannon Beach and the Sea Lion Caves, which have fewer crowds and pleasant weather.

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Getting the Most Out of Your Holiday in Bali

Getting the Most Out of Your Holiday in Bali

Bali is a captivating tropical paradise known for its vibrant culture, scenic landscapes, and deep-rooted traditions. From pristine beaches to delectable cuisine, this Indonesian island promises an array of experiences. Whether you’re after adventure or relaxation, immersing yourself in a rich culture, or unwinding by a pool, Bali guarantees a memorable stay. With its breathtaking nature, welcoming locals, and an array of activities – from surfing to temple exploration – you can ensure a remarkable trip without stretching your finances. Proper research and planning can eliminate any unexpected hurdles during your stay.

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Planning Your Trip

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Ensuring an enjoyable Bali trip requires thoughtful planning. Firstly, determine the ideal time to visit based on weather and accommodation availability. Plan your budget meticulously, factoring in flights, accommodation, transportation, and activities to ensure a smooth trip. Decide if you prefer relaxation or exploration to select the perfect holiday package. Ensure all travel documents are up-to-date to avoid any unforeseen issues. With these considerations, your Balinese adventure is just around the corner!

Where to Stay

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Bali offers a myriad of lodging choices, from opulent beachfront resorts to quaint boutiques and stylish cottages. Optimal enjoyment demands wise accommodation selection, preferably proximate to major attractions. Investigate areas like Seminyak or Ubud, and scour online resources about local amenities before finalizing your stay.

Things to Do

  1. Watch Balinese Traditional Dance at Atlas Beach Club

Atlas Beach Club artfully combines tradition with modernity by showcasing daily Balinese dances such as the Kecak Dance, Fire Dance, and the “Goddess of Danu” show. Here’s the detailed schedule:

  • The Legend of Danu Goddess Dance | Every Thursday at 6 PM

This enchanting performance tells the story of Danu, the goddess of water, lakes, and rivers. Through mesmerizing choreography and elaborate costumes, dancers bring the legend to life, offering a glimpse into Bali’s rich mythological heritage.

  • Balinese Fire Dance | Every Thursday, Friday, and Saturday at 7 PM

Experience the thrill of the Fire Dance, a traditional Balinese dance that incorporates stunning fire manipulation and dynamic movements. This performance is a spectacle of bravery and skill, set against the backdrop of the setting sun and the beach’s vibrant atmosphere.

  • Glow in The Dark Dance | Every Thursday, Friday, and Saturday at 8 PM

As the night progresses, the Glow in The Dark Dance captivates the audience with its luminous costumes and enchanting choreography. This modern twist on traditional dance creates a visually stunning experience, illuminating the night with vibrant colors and graceful movements.

  • Balinese Traditional Kecak Dance | Every Wednesday, Friday, and Saturday, at 6 PM

The Kecak Dance, also known as the “Monkey Chant,” is a hypnotic performance featuring a chorus of male dancers chanting rhythmically while enacting scenes from the Ramayana epic. This powerful and unique dance form is a must-see for anyone interested in Balinese culture and tradition.

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Bali’s allure lies in its vast range of activities. Whether you’re trekking in Ubud’s jungles, diving near Padang Bai, or sunbathing at Kuta Beach, there’s no shortage of experiences. Traditional Balinese dances and temple visits are among the top attractions but don’t miss out on surfing at Uluwatu, culinary classes at Sidakarya market, or the panoramic views from Mount Agung. Local markets are treasure troves of vibrant clothing and crafts, further enriching your Bali experience.

What to Eat

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Bali’s culinary landscape is a feast for the senses. The island’s dishes, marked by their intricate spice blends, range from the savory Ayam Panggang to the sweet spekkoek. Street-food favorites include satay, nasi campur, and banana fritters. Every corner of Bali presents a gastronomic delight, so indulge in both local warungs and upscale eateries.

Shopping in Bali

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Bali is a shopper’s dream with its traditional attire, ornaments, and crafts. Markets in areas like Kuta and Denpasar boast incredible deals, while luxury outlets cater to those seeking exclusivity. From unique trinkets to fashionable beachwear, Bali promises a shopping extravaganza. An extra suitcase might be a wise investment for your finds!

Transportation

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Bali’s transportation landscape is diverse. Public transit options include buses and taxis, but the more adventurous might prefer bike rentals or private vehicles. Popular ride-hailing apps, such as GoJek and Grab, offer convenient alternatives. No matter your choice, navigating Bali is a scenic journey worth savoring.

Staying Safe and Healthy

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A Bali trip requires health and safety vigilance. With rising tourism, risks like dengue fever and malaria loom, making it essential to wear protective clothing and use insect repellants. Ensure you’re vaccinated, carry essential medications, maintain hygiene, and consider travel insurance to ensure a hassle-free holiday.

Conclusion

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In summary, a Bali holiday, with proper preparation, promises a mix of relaxation, exploration, and unparalleled experiences. Amidst the adventures, don’t forget the simple joy of a beachside cocktail – the quintessence of a Bali vacation.

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New on Peacock August 2024: Movies, TV, and Originals

New on Peacock August 2024: Movies, TV, and Originals

The Fall Guy.
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Don’t have Peacock yet?

The Fall Guy didn’t have the time to get audiences to completely fall in love with it in theaters, but nowadays, it’s extremely likely for people to give it a new life on streaming. Coming to Peacock, along with an extended cut, I have a feeling this stunt spectacular film will be a perfect candidate for movie nights to come. Ryan Gosling stars as a semi-retired stuntman pulled back into the fold to work on his ex-girlfriend’s (Emily Blunt) first big director gig without her knowledge, and there’s also a mystery plot bubbling under the surface. With romance, action, and laughs, it’s quite a crowdpleaser. (Streaming August 30.)

Noteworthy selections in bold.

50 First Dates
American Girl
The Back-up Plan
Battleship
Bee Movie
Beethoven (1992)
Beethoven’s 2nd
The Best Man
The Best Man Holiday
Blair Witch
The Blair Witch Project
Blue Valentine
The Book of Eli
Book of Shadows: The Blair Witch 2
The Boss
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Bulletproof
The Cases of Mystery Lane
Casino
Clueless
Couples Retreat
Dear Evan Hansen
Do the Right Thing
Doom
Exodus: Gods and Kings
F9: The Fast Saga
Faster
Field of Dreams
The Fighter
For the Colored Girls
For the Love of the Game
The Great Outdoors
The Heat
The Help
Hesher
The Hulk
Hustle & Flow
Johnson Family Vacation
Just Go With It
K-9
Karen Kingsbury’s the Bridge
Karen Kingsbury’s the Bridge Part 2
Kindergarten Cop
King Richard
Knocked Up
Little Fockers
Love at the Thanksgiving Day Parade
Lucy
Madea’s Big Happy Family
Madea’s Witness Protection
Major Payne
Man Up
MatchMaker Mysteries: A Fatal Romance
MatchMaker Mysteries: A Killer Engagement
MatchMaker Mysteries: The Art of the Kill
Mean Girls
Meet the Fockers
Meet the Parents
A Midnight Kiss
Moneyball (2011)
Moonrise Kingdom
My Best Friend’s Girl
Napa Ever After
Old
The Other Guys
Over the Hedge
The Proposal (2009)
Push
Puss in Boots
R.I.P.D.
Rally Road Racers
Ride Along
Royal New Year’s Eve
Safe
Self/Less
Sense and Sensibility
Shazam!
Shrek
Space Jam
Then Came You
Think Like a Man
Think Like a Man Too
This is 40
To Her, With Love
Unthinkably Good Things
Waterworld
The Wedding Veil
The Wedding Veil Expectations
The Wedding Veil Inspiration
The Wedding Veil Journey
The Wedding Veil Legacy
The Wedding Veil Unveiled
Wild Oats
Zodiac

Jazz Ramsey: A K-9 Mystery

Junebug

Deadly Waters With Captain Lee, season 1 — all episodes

Mr. Throwback, season 1 — all episodes (Peacock Original)

The Bikeriders (Peacock Exclusive)
Renfield

Marry Me
My Dreams of You

2 Fast 2 Furious
Fast & Furious
Fast & Furious 6
The Fast and The Furious
The Fast and The Furious: Tokyo Drift
Fast Five
The Fast of the Furious
Furious 7

Abused by Mom: The Ruby Franke Scandal

Bel-Air, season 3 premiere (Peacock Original)

Polite Society

A Costa Rican Wedding

Love Island USA, season 6 reunion (Peacock Original)
Homicide: Life on the Street, 7 seasons
Homicide: The Movie

Face to Face with Scott Peterson, premiere — all episodes (Peacock Original)

The 365

The Killer (Peacock Original)

Engaged to be Murdered

The Magic of Lemon Drops

The Anonymous, season 1 premiere
Days of Our Lives, season 60 premiere

Girl on the Milk Carton, premiere

Opening Ceremony for the Paris 2024 Paralympic Games

Toby Keith: American Icon
Here Comes The Irish (Peacock Original)
Gary (Peacock Original)

Book Club: Next Chapter
The Fall Guy (Peacock Exclusive)
The Fall Guy: The Extended Cut (Peacock Exclusive)

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Simone Biles Seems to Slam Donald Trump Over ‘Black Jobs’ Remark

Simone Biles Seems to Slam Donald Trump Over ‘Black Jobs’ Remark

The gymnast’s tweet seemed to nod at dubious and controversial remarks Trump has made about migrants taking jobs from Black workers

Simone Biles appeared to take a jab at former president Donald Trump and his recent comments about “Black jobs” following her gold medal win in the women’s gymnastics all-around final at the 2024 Paris Olympics.

“I love my black job,” Biles wrote on Twitter early Friday morning in response to a tweet from a Philadelphia singer-songwriter, Ricky Davila, who’d started the bit. Davila had shared a photo of Biles with her medal and wrote, “Simone Biles being the GOAT, winning Gold medals and dominating gymnastics is her black job.”

The tweets not-so-subtly alluded to a line Trump has trotted out lately, where he’s claimed that migrants are coming to the United States and taking “Black jobs.” The remark has, understandably, garnered plenty of controversy and criticism, as it not only manages to stoke fears about immigration and the dubious notion that migrants take jobs from U.S. workers, but it also reinforces racial stereotypes about what kind of jobs Black people do. 

The line garnered pushback and went semi-viral after Trump delivered it during the first presidential debate against Joe Biden (though it was largely overshadowed by Biden’s overall performance and the concerns it raised about his age and viability). While Trump has repeated the comment at some of his rallies since then, it returned to the popular consciousness this week when he used it during his appearance before the National Association of Black Journalists.

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“I will tell you that coming from the border, are millions and millions of people that happen to be taking Black jobs,” Trump said during the contentious interview. When asked to define a Black job, he said, “A Black job is anybody that has a job. That’s what it is.”

On a much more fun note, Biles made history with her all-around final win, a prize she first won at the 2016 Rio Olympics. The victory made her the first U.S. gymnast to win the women’s all-around competition twice and just the third gymnast to do it ever, following the Soviet Union’s Larisa Latynina (1956 and 1960) and Czechoslovakia Vera Čáslavská (1964 and 1968). 


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MF Doom Gets Action Figure From Super7

MF Doom Gets Action Figure From Super7

Four years after the death of British American rapper and producer Daniel Dumile, his alter ego MF Doom lives on — now in the form of an action figure.

Pop culture collectibles company Super7 is set to release an action figure to commemorate the 20th anniversary of “Madvillain,” Doom’s acclaimed 2004 collaboration with underground producer Madlib. Inspired by the group’s comic-book-come-to-life music video for “All Caps,” Super7 created a poseable, 16” tall vinyl collectible of Doom in his signature fedora, trench coat and metal mask.

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Released after his third solo album (under his third-and-counting pseudonym, Viktor Vaughn), “Madvillainy” marked Doom’s first collaborative project since his days as a member of cult ‘90s group KMD. The record more firmly codified the rapper’s presence as both an undeniable talent and mysterious figure in the rap world, especially after adopting the iconography of one of Marvel Comics’ greatest villains. Though Super7 previously released (now sold out) 4” figures of Doom inspired by the cover for his 1999 debut “Operation: Doomsday” and a companion piece of collaborator Czarface, this release is the marquee collectible in their series, and could not come at a better time: just weeks after Marvel Studios announced that Robert Downey Jr. was cast as his namesake, Doctor Doom, in two upcoming “Avengers” films.

Despite Super7’s pedigree as a manufacturer of action figures inspired by rappers, the Madvillain figure is also the first music artist selected for the company’s SuperSize series, joining a variety of “Peanuts” and “Sesame Street” characters. Not only was the figure design drawn from art by James Reitano, who animated and directed the music video for”All Caps,” but it comes in a box with new images Reitano created especially for this release. Additionally, Super7 has created a capsule collection featuring apparel (shirts, sweatshirts and caps), sticker and button packs and a MF Doom skate deck.

Collectors can pre-order their own Madvillain figure on August 5 at 11 a.m. ET, but that window closes on Aug. 7 at 11:59 p.m. ET.

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On Our Way To Late Summer, Or, Saturday Morning at 8:49am

On Our Way To Late Summer, Or, Saturday Morning at 8:49am

woman in a tobacco-colored stress and white sneakers, looking in a mirror

Here comes August! I wore this Graecove (now sadly defunct) linen dress and a pair of Veja sneakers for a 2-hour drive to inland California to see a possible wedding venue. A high of 104 degrees was predicted, so a dress it was, with laces to keep my shoes stable on my feet for the long drive. Sturdy Gals foevah. My pearl earrings matched my shoes; all was not lost.

BTW, it’s my daughter’s birthday, so I will take a minute to wish her Happy Birthday here with you. The wedding venue project continues.

Back to August. I will be taking the month off, as has become the custom on Privilege. When I return, if all goes according to plan I will have photos of a Swedish wedding and Norwegian fjords. Probably also closeups of my left thumb and videos of a strange chandelier given the standard phone fumbling.

And taking the month off brings me to last week’s post. Flo asked me if I ever groaned when writing these posts, and–very grateful to have been asked, as we are when someone indicates they care about our well-being–I said yes. But I do not want to leave you with the impression that I don’t want to be here. I do. I just don’t always know if I have anything I can say from my heart that serves you.

This blog started as a tiny personal blog that no one knew, turned into a style blog that a lot of people saw, and has evolved into a personal blog still read by many. I want to provide community and a modicum of delight, for you, but also for myself. But in this time in our history, the issues of our future and governance loom so large it’s often hard for me to say anything that isn’t a very loud, “HALP,” or “Are we kidding?” or “No no no no no no!” Or, occasionally, a “Maybe there’s hope after all.”

I don’t want to become just another yelling voice, and yet I feel these political currents so strongly. So I suppose what I try to do, when not analyzing the perfect shade of olive green, is encourage by example.  You know my political beliefs. Maybe I can show those of you who disagree with me just who we try to be on this side. And it can take more skill than I’ve got, often, to exemplify thoughtful, fairness and compassion, to say nothing of a certain aesthetic and midlife style. Being, in fact,  imperfect, the farthest thing from an icon of virtue. But I try.

It’s very Sturdy, to feel like we’re bound to try to do the best job we can. I imagine you may do the same. I have also learned, in going on 68 years, that the other Sturdy gal trait, simply showing up in the first place, may be even more important. We are more than the tasks we perform, the excellence we embody, the material value we provide. We’re humans, in bodies, living through time. We have faces, and gestures, a tone of voice, and a feel to our skin. As such, we are good for other people in ways we don’t and can’t even understand.

I’m glad to show up here. Even more than that, as I’ve said before, I’m glad and grateful you all show up. Here, of course, but wherever you are with the people and creatures that matter to you.

Back to August. Enjoy. See you in September.

 

 

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